The marble jar integration idea to create safe and brave spaces of belonging we need to commit to doing our work before we do the work and to working within our scope and skill.
Marble jar friends brene.
Some teachers use a marble jar with their class as an incentive for good behavior.
While you may still have a close knit group.
We use the marble jar as a metaphor for teaching that trust is built slowly over time and in small moments.
Who you know you can trust and tell difficult things to.
She used the metaphor of marble jar friends to explain how family and friends earn the right to be in meaningful relationships.
If they re making not great choices the teacher takes out marbles.
Family friends in my life include people build trust with me through through investigating and writing about trust further i now understand why i felt uncomfortable in this situation and will be able to explain it more clearly in the future.
And if the jar gets filled up there s a celebration for the class.
Conversely when the class veered into the land of negatives marbles were removed.
Building marble jar friendships is important because someday we may be flat on our backs needing help and we will want to call on someone we can really trust.
Marble jar people i e.
In her book daring greatly brené talks about marble jar friends.
I ve got marble jar friends brené brown daring greatly.
Her mother brene responds trust is like a marble jar.
You also remove marbles when someone betrays your trust.
You only need a few marble jar friends.
Marble jars in terms of friends and trust aren t something you discuss just what comes naturally.
When the class behaves and works hard the teacher adds a marble to the jar.
When we were elementary school aged many of us were open books who shared everything with our friends.
What is a marble jar.
Everyone has different criteria for their marble jars.